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Don't be too quick to believe someone else
over yourself. Trust your eyes as well as your ears. If you FEEL that things
aren't right, there is a chance that they aren't EVEN if everyone else says that
they are. Girls often pretend that they are being nice when they are
being their meanest. Even if you ask them what's going on, they will act as if
YOU are the one who is crazy. I bet you're not. It IS true that you can start to
imagine that people are talking about you behind your back when they're not, but
if you have evidence that girls are being mean - they probably are.
Unfortunately, the kind of evidence that you'll have - facial expressions, body
language, and feelings - aren't things that teachers, counselors, or even other
girls will usually listen to. The real question is, do you want to be friends
with girls that are being so mean to you? An even better thing to think about is
this: girls who zing you with mean looks and other nastiness aren't a good judge
of whether you are cool or not!
Back to the quiz.
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