R x  F O R  T H E  B O Y - C R A Z Y:

  • Don't let you friends set you up with someone because you need a boyfriend.
  • Prioritize. Decide what you want to do with your future and then figure out how boys factor in.
  • Don't change how you look or act for anyone.
  • If you start talking about boys (again!) with a girlfriend, call a time out and discuss something else, like whether or not popular culture teaches you to dislike yourself.
  • Get involved in after-school activities or volunteer work. This will help cut down on the time spent obsessing and get you to meet new people outside of your own social circle.
  • Make a Top Ten list of qualities a guy must have before you'll date him. Stick to it.