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Are You A Surface Dweller?

Or Do You Live DEEP?

By Cinse Bonino

How much of your true self do you let others see? Do people know what you are REALLY thinking inside? Do you tell everyone everything? Or do you have a few close friends (or maybe even just one very special friend) that you tell your secret stuff to? OR do you hide your inner feelings from everyone?

Some people are afraid that if people find out what they are thinking DEEP inside that they won't like them anymore. Does this sound like you?

Believe me there are lots of people who will like you for exactly who you are.

Let's find out if you want your DEEP stuff to be available to people who are interested in finding out about it, (we're talking about those people that you feel you can trust of course) -- or if you simply want to show people what's on the surface. You know -- the things they can actually see: like how tall you are, what you look like, if you are smiling or not, what you appear to be interested in, that sort of stuff.

  1. There is nothing about me that I want to hide from other people.
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  2. People are WAY too nosy. What I think about stuff is for me to know and for them to NEVER find out!
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  3. I don't tell everyone everything, but my closest friends know most of my secrets.
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  4. I don't tell anyone anything unless they absolutely need to know about it.
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  5. People might not like me if they knew what I was REALLY thinking.
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  6. I want people to know ALL about me, because I want them to like the real me -- the me that I really am.
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  7. You can get really close to someone without them knowing how you feel about all kinds of stuff.
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  8. I don't want to know other people's secrets, and I don't want them to know mine!
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  9. People can hurt you if they know your secrets, but they can be trusted with your heart if they can be trusted with your secrets.
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  10. Real friends don't keep their true feelings from each other.
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  11. Some girls just want to giggle and talk about boys or stuff they own and they NEVER want to talk about important stuff. I don't think that is cool at all.
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  12. I don't tell my secret thoughts to others, but sometimes I do feel like I am going to explode!
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  13. Some stuff IS private, but it's important to be honest about everything that you are thinking with your friends.
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  14. You shouldn't feel like you HAVE to tell private stuff to your friends, but you should feel like you CAN.
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