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Are You A Star Crossed Lover?

Who is your perfect date?

By Gloria Stone

 

A guy says to you, "I'm a Leo. What's your sign?" He's not only trying to start a conversation; he's also trying to find out if you have similar likes and dislikes. Your horoscope is like a painting of who you are. Your Sun sign shows the general shape of your personality. It can tell other people if you make friends easily, if you are quiet and introspective, easy going, or high-strung. All of these things can help determine what kind of relationship you and another person will have - long lasting or as short as a summer fling.
Everyone knows that water puts fire out.

Soon after the initial "Hello, my name is so-and so," a fire sign girl will get gallons of water dumped on her by that loving, sensitive water sign guy. Then he'll be gone, and you guessed it, never return! So watch out for water guys if you are an Aries, Leo or Sag, otherwise you'll spend hours talking to your best friend trying to figure our what happened.

Everyone is fascinating to study when we meet them because they are still a total mystery. At first we only see the color of their hair or eyes, the way they dress, and whether they are tall, short, heavy or thin. Most of us are attracted by our opposites, but it's an attraction that rarely lasts very long. Our differences get totally in the way and after a while, sweet, cute, adorable Jason with the oh-so-cute buns, drives us crazy with his neatness or messiness. Many of us also make the mistake of believing that every wonderful he or she we meet is our soul mate and that we are destined to spend eternity together like Romeo and Juliet. Do you remember what happened to them?
Smart girls understand that we MUST know and love ourselves before we can even begin to know or love another human being.

It is NOT selfish to believe that YOU are the most important person in your life. You have to be happy with who you are. YOU are the one person you can be sure will never run off and leave you, so each morning when you look in that mirror, work at really liking the girl who stares back at you.

Now answer the questions on the next page from your heart and find out if your ever-lovin' is the right one for you or if should you move on and look for another date for the prom!

  1. A new cutie transferred to your school and you really want to get his/her attention. You:
    • Walk right up to them and offer to show them around school.
    • Be very conveniently available if they need help with homework.
    • Give them a list of the social events for the month and tell them that you will be glad to meet them there.
    • Go home and write poetry about them.
  2. Your latest fling calls your house but does not leave a message. You:
    • Pick up the phone and return the call as soon as you walk in.
    • Ask your Mom a dozen questions about the phone call.
    • Call your best friend and ask her opinion as to why they called.
    • Be totally upset that they did not leave a message.
  3. Your date is late to pick you up. You:
    • Immediately pick the phone up and want an explanation NOW.
    • Patiently wait and believe that there is a reasonable explanation.
    • Go back up to your room and turn on your radio for comfort.
    • Start thinking about all the reasons that you are being stood up.
  4. You and your sweetie have a rip-roaring fight and tell each other that it is over. You:
    • Make everyone around you miserable and vow to never see him/her again.
    • Go straight to your room and box up everything that they have ever given to you.
    • Get on the phone and call everyone that you have ever been out with.
    • Cry for days and start planning revenge.
  5. You find out that someone else has a crush on your love. You:
    • Confront them and tell them to back off and look out.
    • Back off and let fate take its course.
    • Give your lover the cold shoulder and not answer the phone.
    • Go to your sweetie and say unpleasant things about your competition.
  6. Your birthday is coming up and you are not sure if your main squeeze remembers or not. You:
    • Start dropping hints, loud and clear, a whole month ahead of time.
    • Get your best friend to find out if they know about this event.
    • Have faith that they will certainly remember your special day.
    • Be insecure about the situation and believe that it will definitely be forgotten.
  7. You buy a hot little number to wear to a special event being held at school. The color is:
    • Fire engine red.
    • Cinnamon.
    • Iridescent green.
    • Baby blue.
  8. When you walk out and greet your date in that same hot number, you expect him/her to react by:
    • Going on and on about how great you look.
    • Giving you one nice compliment.
    • Telling you that everyone at the party will be envious.
    • Know that you had better get a compliment, or else.
  9. When your sweetie is upset you'd rather that he or she would:
    • Rant and rave and yell.
    • Talk things over calmly with you.
    • Pretend nothing is wrong.
    • Just quietly let the anger pass but plan to get even.
  10. You have had a cold for a whole week. You want your sweet thing to:
    • Call you ten times a day to see if you need anything.
    • Call once to see how you are.
    • Leave you alone and let you suffer.
    • Bring you soup, a get-well card, and flowers.
  11. You are leaving for vacation and will leave your sweet thing behind. You:
    • Pack your bags before anyone can count to ten.
    • Are sad that you'll be apart but know that you will be back soon.
    • Wonder how many phone numbers you will get while you're there.
    • Feel jealous and are worried about leaving him/her alone.
  12. Your mom tells you that you must cut your date short and be home early. You:
    • Get home a few minutes late but know that you can explain your situation and Mom will understand.
    • Walk in at exactly the time you were told.
    • Call your Mom and tell her that you ran out of gas but will be home soon.
    • Come home early just to be on the safe side.
  13. You have just met someone new and you feel that they are attracted to you. Your reaction is:
    • Nonchalant - you are too busy to notice.
    • To check them out and make a mental note of their looks
    • To flirt openly with them and then disappear.
    • Compliment them and try to make them feel comfortable.
  14. Your love has to stay after school for a project. You:
    • Go do your own thing and agree to meet up with them later.
    • Go to the library and work on that report that you have to turn in.
    • Hang out with your friends and catch up on the latest gossip.
    • Sit quietly to the side and wait for your mate to finish.
  15. Someone makes a pass at your date, openly, right in front of you. You:
    • Get in their face and tell them to mind their own business.
    • Look at them as if they have lost their minds but say nothing..
    • Make a mental note to do the same to them in the near future.
    • Pout the rest of the evening and make your date feel as if it was their fault.
  16. Your sweetie makes a negative comment about what you are wearing. You:
    • Tell him/her it is none of their business and you will dress any way you please.
    • Change your outfit.
    • Say nothing but vow to wear something even crazier on your next date.
    • Tell them how insensitive they are and not answer the phone for the next few days.