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Following the signs.

Do you use the stars and other signs to determine your path?

By Cinse Bonino

 

If you see the same shirt at six different stores, do you think it means that something or somebody is trying to tell you to buy it? Or, do you just think it means that WAY too many girls are going to show up at school in that same shirt really soon? Do you believe in and look for signs to help you make choices in your life? Many people do. Through the ages, human beings have tried to find out what the future holds for them. Most of us would still like to know what's going to happen next in our lives. Most of us also want to understand what makes us unique and different from each other.

Astrology is one way to get a picture of who you are. It's comforting to know that others born near your birthday have some of the same traits that you have. Maybe it's not so bad being stubborn because after all, aren't most Taurus Girls stubborn? Reading up on your Astrological Sun Sign and learning more about whether you are an earth, fire, air, or water sign can help you to learn about who you are.

Astrology isn't the only way to get a look at what makes you you. The shape of your hands and the lines on your palms tell a story about you too. The numbers that make up your birth date and even your name can be a key to other aspects of your personality. Whether you scrawl or practically draw your signature reveals much more than how neat and tidy you are. Maybe you were born in the Chinese year of the dog or the rat or even the monkey. Whatever animal graced your year of birth also characterizes your behaviors and even your outlook.

But are you the type of girl who believes in all this stuff?

Maybe not. Maybe you just enjoy it as something fun to do, but you don't actually think that it's true. Or maybe, you think that it's true sometimes, but not always. Personally, I believe that there's a lot more going on in the Universe than any of us could possibility understand, AND I think that just about everything is connected to everything else. I like finding out what things like Astrology, Palm Reading, Numerology, Chinese Horoscopes, Handwriting Analysis, Runes, and other systems have to say about me and my life.

BUT, I always believe that ultimately life is simply a series of choices, and even though I may be inclined by birth or circumstances to go in a certain direction or to follow certain signs, I STILL GET TO PICK!

A friend, who is an astrologer, once told me that she believes that the future is a series of possibilities. If you get your fortune told or you follow the signs, they tell you only one of all these possible futures. Visualize a table covered with file folders. Each folder tells the story of how your future could be. YOU get to decide which one to put your energy and your focus on. That one, the one you pick, receives the most energy and glows the brightest. I believe that one is the one most likely to come true. How about you? How strongly do you believe in following signs in your life? Take our quiz and find out.

  1. How often do you read your horoscope?
    • Every day.
    • Once a week.
    • About once a month.
    • Whenever I happen to see it.
  2. How strongly do you believe in astrological predictions?
    • I think it is just about set in stone.
    • I think there is a strong likelihood it will come true.
    • I think it has a 50/50 chance of coming true.
    • I think it is probably a bunch of hooey.
  3. Do you know your Sun Sign?
    • Yes.
    • I think so.
    • No, I don't.
    • What's a Sun Sign?
  4. If you had your fortune told for fun at a carnival and the fortuneteller told you that you would become a famous dancer and you never even considered dance before, what would you do?
    • Jump into the dance thing BIG TIME - shoes, tutus, lessons, books, posters, the works.
    • Take a dance lesson to see if she might know something you don't know.
    • Laugh, but wonder why you haven't tried dancing because you do like it.
    • Figure she's a total fake.
  5. If you discover that the lifeline on your palm is really short, you would:
    • Live life hard and fast cause you're gonna die young!
    • Figure that you should take better care of your health and safety.
    • Worry for a moment or two and then forget about it.
    • Laugh and not let it bother you at all.
  6. You have a friend that you really love, but sometimes, actually quite often, she can really drive you nuts because she doesn't seem to know when to stop fooling around and being silly. You discover that she was born in the Chinese year of the Monkey. You:
    • Figure, "Oh THAT explains everything!"
    • Wonder if there might be a connection and if the last guy who dumped you was born in the year of the Rat!?
    • Laugh at the coincidence.
    • Don't care when she was born - just how she behaves.
  7. You've decided to start going by a shorter version of your name. One friend informs you that this totally changes your numerology - from positive to negative. You:
    • Decide NOT to make the change.
    • Change anyway, but feel just a tad nervous about it.
    • Change, without any worries.
    • Ignore you friend even while she's telling you about it!
  8. Your love connections horoscope says that Scorpios are NOT a good match for you. The guy you are totally hooked on, the same one your friends all say is trouble, turns out to be a Scorpio. You:
    • Decide you might get stung and scope out the scene for someone else.
    • Figure maybe your friends may have a point after all and forget the guy.
    • Pursue your man cause a girl has to find out for herself!
    • Slam the astrology book closed and tell everyone to mind their own business and then attend to yours!
  9. You have the chance to be lab partners with one of two girls; you get to pick. You really need an "A" in science. You don't know what kind of grades either girl gets. Jen is cute, but her writing is way sloppy and she never closes her letters. Anna is really pretty, and her writing is super tiny and looks like a computer font it's so perfect. You choose:
    • Anna, because her writing must mean that she is smart and organized.
    • Anna, because you figure neatness is always part of the grade.
    • Jen, because she won't be anal or think she's better than you.
    • Jen, because you really can't tell much by handwriting, and Anna is just too pretty for her own good anyway!
  10. You have to let your guidance counselor know tomorrow morning whether you want to take Spanish or French as your language for next fall. Most of your friends are choosing Spanish. You figure you will too. That afternoon you turn on the TV and the program that's on is in French. Your mom comes home from work and tells you that one of her co-workers just arranged to have an au pair that is from France, and your dad brings your mom a bottle of French Wine to go with dinner. You:
    • Yell, "Okay," to the Universe and decide to sign up for French.
    • Decide you'll take French because it will be good for you to be an independent thinker.
    • Call your friends to find out why they are taking Spanish.
    • Stick with Spanish.
  11. You are in the library looking for a specific book that a friend thought was great. You're running late. A book sticking out a little way on a shelf catches your eye as you rush past to get to the book your friend recommended. You:
    • Grab the book that's sticking out - obviously, it was meant for you.
    • Grab the book that's sticking out and get the one your friend recommended too.
    • Think about the book for a second, but then rush right by and get the book your friend recommended.
    • Barely give the book a second look.
  12. After school your friends are planning to go grab some pizza. They ask you along. You get the weirdest, worst feeling in your stomach. You have no idea why you suddenly feel so worried. You:
    • Try to talk them all into doing something else.
    • Thank them for asking but say today isn't going to work out for you.
    • Go anyway, but keep your eyes open for trouble.
    • Tell yourself to snap out of it, ignore your stomach, and go with your friends.