1. I feel comfortable saying exactly what I think in a group of other teens.
Good for you! I'm glad you aren't shy to speak your mind. It pays to be an individual in life, but sometimes the pay stinks! You can be teased for what you think or how you choose to dress. There will always be some people who think that you are saying they are stupid or wrong just because you disagree with them. NOT true! The key is to ignore the hecklers and maintain your grace and poise at all times. Think of yourself as being on an interview show on TV. If your goal IS to make yourself feel smarter by making other people look stupid then we'd all appreciate it if you keep your mouth closed. If your intention is to share your view and to be open to hear the views of others then we all want YOU at our next party!!! Keep standing out girl; you deserve to be heard.
Some key phrases to use to keep your poise alive:"I hear what you're saying, and I can understand why you feel that way, but for me..."
"I used to feel the same way but then I thought about the fact that ..."
"That's a really valid point. I agree with you, but the thing that makes it not work for me is..."
"I never looked at it quite that way before; I'm going to have to think about that for awhile."
"Wow, where did you hear that? I didn't know about that. Where can I get more information?