Green Eyed Monster

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Green Eyed Monster

So, I am totally head over heels for this guy. I've been crushing on him for months. We've kissed and we both like each other, but he is always flirting with other girls a lot. I understand that I won't be the only girl that he likes,but when he constantly flirts with these girls it makes me question whether he tells them the same things he tells me or not. I've brought this to his attention once & he just told me that everything he has told me is the truth and he means it when he says he likes me or all the other cute stuff he says to me..It still leaves me kinda questioning if he's really worth it though..Seeing him with these girls makes me jealous sometimes, and I hate feeling jealous. So, in that case, if I decide to just get over him, How do I? How do I get over a guy?
 
 
-Icis
 
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Hi Icis, 
Ugh! It's so confusing when the guy you have feelings for is sending mixed signals. Sounds like he's into you, but isn't into committing to 1 girl. Jealousy is the absolute worst and I get it. Watching him flirt with all the girls is not easy. We've all felt that way and you should be in a relationship that you feel secure in. Trust is essential. You can't give your power over to jealousy. So, if you're ready to get over this playa...it's gonna take time, but it's totally possible! Here are some tried and true tips that work!
 
1. Try to cut him off. Don't Facebook stalk him, no textng, and don't hang out by his locker to "check up" on him. 
2. Fill your free time with friends and family. Be around the people you love and who show you how a healthy relationship is suppose to feel!
3. Have some fun! Get your focus on something other than him. You won't be reminiscing over him if you're laughing with your BFFs and enjoying life.
4. Hang with your guy friends and be open to meeting some a new special someone.
5. Instead of remembering how cute he is when he smiles, focus on the reasons why he made you unhappy. 
 
Moving on is difficult and doesn't happen overnight, but stay strong girl! You are amazing and deserve a guy who makes you feel special, not like another girl he flirts with. Wishing you lots of love & strength. <3
GZ Advisor