Dear GPS Gal,

Hey, I need help with my future. I've always wanted to become a vet when I grow up but I also love to sing. Everybody tells me I have a great voice and ask if I ever considered becoming a singer or artist but I don’t know. Do you think maybe you can help me decide?

Ana

Ana,

You present a great question. How do you choose between being a vet and being a singer?

First of all, I’d like you to take a look at an earlier blog post that I wrote called “How to decide between two great career paths?” This will give you a few steps to “test drive” the two careers you are considering. I also have a couple other ideas about your specific dilemma. Since being a vet and being a singer are such very different paths, I’d like you to take a look inside and answer the following questions:

1. Are you more of a practical, structured person or are you more of a creative, flexible person?

Neither way is right or wrong, but it might be helpful to explore how you approach your life and your studies to help you make a decision. The career path to becoming a vet is pretty straight-forward and clear. There are a good number of schools where you can study veterinary medicine, you graduate, take your exams, get licensed, and either set up a practice or work for a veterinary clinic. Of course there are other variations to this path, but for the most part, it’s pretty well defined and structured.

Being a singer or an artist however is not necessarily a well-defined path and it often requires a great deal of creativity, flexibility, and sacrifice to become successful. Are you the type of person that likes a well-defined path or do you prefer to live “moment-to-moment”?

2. Could you do both?

There are so many opportunities to make singing part of your life in college and within a community even if you are not a professional singer. Would you be satisfied if singing is your hobby and veterinary medicine is your career? Would that fulfill both of your passions? Sometimes it’s nice to have a break from what you consider your “work” and pursuing a hobby that you love can be a great way to balance your life with your work.

3. Will you regret it?

If you don’t pursue singing professionally, does it feel like you would be giving up on a dream? The answer to this can only come from a feeling inside because there’s no way until you are much older to know if you would regret your decision. If you do decide that it really is one of your greatest dreams, then you really should try to make it happen so that it doesn’t turn into a “regret” later on. There are so many amazing examples of singers and other celebrities who were so focused on their dreams that they didn’t give up and they made it.

But it takes a lot of resolve to carve your own path like this, so you need to seriously ask yourself, if your dream is to be a professional singer, or if you just love singing and you want to find a way to make this a part of your life no matter what you do for a career.

I wish you all the best. Please keep in touch — I’d love to hear what you decide.

The GPS Gal

Dear GPS Gal

I would like to know where I will be in 10 years?

Amanda

 Dear Amanda,

I can understand your desire to know where you’ll be in 10 years, because I totally wished that I knew that when I was in high school. I guess this is why they invented time machines!

Sometimes it helps to spend some time imagining where you WANT to be in 10 years. Take out a piece of paper or open a document on the computer and write at the top: “In 10 years, I will be ____ years old, and this is what my life will be like…”

Now BRAINSTORM. Imagine that it is 10 years later, and write down anything you can think of related to your ideal future: What kind of job are you in? What did you study in school? Where do you live and what does your house look like? Have you traveled anywhere? Are you in a relationship?

Having a picture in your head of what life will look like in 10 years is the first step to figuring out the path you need to follow to get there. For example if you pictured yourself in a professional position where you are respected by your co-workers or clients, you’ll start to get an understanding that having extra responsibility and respect is important to you at work. If you picture yourself traveling around the world, then this is a good clue that you’re looking for a career that has a travel or adventure component to it. If you picture yourself spending a lot of time at home with your family, then this might be an indication that having a good balance between work and home life is essential to you.

See if you can pull out any common themes from your brainstorm that might be clues to your future.  You’ll want to use these clues about your interests, preferences, and dreams when you begin to search for your future career path.

When I look back on where I was 10 years ago, I could have never imagined that I would be where I am as an author, living in Hawaii, owning 3 businesses, but I am excited that life took a turn in this direction because it makes living more fun!

Part of the joy of living is letting life unfold one year, or even one day at a time, so don’t be in too much of a hurry to find out where you’ll be in ten years! Good luck!

The GPS Gal

Dear GPS Gal

I’m 17 and will be entering college next year. I’m torn between two career paths, law and education. I want to be a teacher because I absolutely love kids, but then I want to be a lawyer because I’m scared I might get laid off when I’m a teacher. What do you think?

Kayle

Dear Kayle,

It’s an interesting time right now with the economy, and it can seem a little scary watching so many people getting laid off from their jobs. Although I recommend considering the security and income possibilities of your future career, you have to keep in mind that the economic climate will change with time, and it could be a very different situation by the time you graduate from college (let’s hope for positive change!). Our country will always need teachers, and if you are passionate about teaching and really love to be around kids, I would not give up on this dream because of your fear.

The job description for a lawyer is obviously very different than that for a teacher, so I think it’s important for you to figure out why you are truly interested in each. Is the lawyer thing about the money or do you have passion for that as well? It you love being around kids, you’re probably not going to see too many in your normal work as a lawyer.

One of things we recommend at Where’s the Map is to “test drive” your future career just like you would test drive a new car before you buy it (we’re working on a new book to help students do this). Here are a few steps to “test drive” the two careers you are considering:

1. Find a professional association.

There are professional associations or organizations related to just about every type of career. You can find most by doing a simple internet search for “professional association of ___________”, “national association of ___________”, or “international association of __________” ( insert “teachers” or “lawyers” in the blank). Spend at least an hour on their website looking around, maybe subscribe to a blog or newsletter. The main thing you’re looking for is a clue as to whether the material on the site can hold your interest, even if it’s over your head. Ask yourself: “Do I care about what teachers or lawyers are talking about professionally?

2. Interview people

You probably have had a lot more exposure to teachers than lawyers (unless maybe you have a family member who’s a lawyer), but regardless it’s important to sit down and actually interview people who work in each of the fields that you’re interested in. I’d recommend at least 3 people in each field for 10-20 minutes. You will get a much different perspective during an interview (or chat session) than you would from just being around teachers in school. And if you don’t know three lawyers already, get out the phone book and search for someone in your local area who is a lawyer.

Call them up, tell them you are a student and interested in their career field, and you are wondering if they would be willing to talk with you either over the phone or in person to answer a few questions about their career. If you will be meeting in person with someone you don’t know, you may prefer to go with a parent or guardian or meet in a public place like a coffee shop. You’d be putting your best foot forward if you offered to buy them a tea or coffee while you are there in exchange for their time. Some questions you could ask are:

• What led you to this job/career?
• What do you enjoy most about your work? What are the biggest challenges about this career?
• What do you do in a typical workday?

3. Volunteer

Getting actual experience working in and around the type of professional you want to be, is one of the best ways to make a career decision. So find a way to volunteer within each of your career fields- maybe in a school or law office, or helping out an individual lawyer or a teacher. Get a feel for the job and stay tuned to your overall interest level in the work that you’re doing (even though it might grunt work). Do you enjoy the atmosphere of the job? Does it hold your interest? Can you see yourself doing what they are doing?

Hope these ideas help! I wish you all the best with your decision and I’d love to hear which career path you plan to pursue.

The GPS Gal

Dear GPS Gal

I've wanted to be a fashion designer for as long as I could remember I have a book full of designs I have, but now on top of having a passion for fashion I also have a dream of writing my own book. I started and love it. How I can be 10 different people at once? I have no idea how to follow my dreams. I need help :(

Deja

Hi Deja,

Luckily for you, we have more opportunities now to explore a variety of careers in our lifetimes; some studies are saying that most people will have up to 12 different careers! That’s much different than it was in the past, and you may be able to use it to your advantage.

I’m not sure from your description if your book is about fashion design, but it is very common for someone who has a passion or interest to become an author about that expertise, in which case I’d say to pursue your passion for fashion design and let yourself learn as much as you can, before you start to write you book. Any experience you can gather will help you as you write it.

If the book is about something totally different than fashion design, is there anything stopping you from writing it in your spare time? One of things that many people don’t know about being an author, is that most authors are not writing full-time, and may not be able to make enough money off of their books to make a full-time living from being an author. This isn’t true for everyone- especially not JK Rowling, the author of Harry Potter! So you might be able to pursue fashion design and still become an author. It’s great to have hobbies that you enjoy, and someday your writing may become a full-time career.

As you are preparing for what comes next for you after graduation, talk to anyone you can about both career paths that you are considering. Find people who are in fashion design, and schedule an interview with them. You may not think they would give you the time of day, but you’ll be surprised how willing people (even strangers) are to help (it’s not like you are going to steal their job away from them- at least not for 5 years or so!) Call them up, e-mail them, be pleasantly persistent, but don’t be a stalker. Move on if they are not interested, and find someone else who is.

Know what your options are for each field you consider, and what interests you most about your options. I don’t know very much about fashion design but I suspect there are hundreds of different offshoots for what you could specialize in or the type of environment you could work in. Do your research early before you decide on college, learn as much as you can about fashion design and being an author, and this will really help you narrow down which path you want to choose first. You may discover that neither path actually fits you, and decide instead to pursue something else entirely. That’s ok too!

You pursue your dreams by making informed decisions based on what you feel inspired to do at the time. The tricky thing is that this may change the more you live life and have new experiences that inspire you do something different. The best way to pursue your dreams is to research, and then relax about the decision, knowing that life really unfolds one step at a time, and we just can’t figure it all out all at once. All you can do is take action on your most inspired thought, and trust that it will all unfold perfectly.

Good luck!

The GPS Gal 

Hey GPS Gal,

I’m only 13 but I've been really interested in journalism, writing for magazines recently, and I was asking if there was any places on this website where people can give you some articles and you have to choose which one can be selected to go on the website, or do you know how else to get noticed other than writing for the school newspaper on day to day life issues?

hope you help xx

Jess

Hi Jess,

I think it’s great to get a head-start on your passion for journalism. There are a few things I would suggest.

One, if you are interested in writing on a topic that you think would be valuable for other girls to read, I would definitely recommend submitting your article to the girlzone editor or the person in charge of the section that your article falls into (technology, looks, money, your future, etc). If you had something to share with readers about college or career choices, I would be happy to consider posting your article provided it was appropriate for our readers, and it seems like other contributors might also. For example, if you wanted to interview a few women who are in college or in careers they love, and find out more about them, we could certainly post this under the section “Your Future”. I would also consider posting an article that you write to wheresthemap.com, if it fit within our criteria.

Two, if you have not started your own blog, I would highly recommend it. The earlier the better. If possible, try to focus on a particular topic, or if you don’t want to narrow it down, give it a special edge. Since you are 13, that already is a bonus because not every 13 year old has a blog, and it will help you stand out. By the time you are ready to start applying for colleges, internships, or jobs, you will have a leg up on the other applicants if you have been consistently developing a following through a blog. I recommend using wordpress or blogspot to create a blog. Both are free to use, and pretty easy if you are web-savvy.

Three, you may also consider submitting articles to online sites like ezinearticles.com which are great ways for you to gain some exposure and experience as an “expert author”. Basically you choose a topic that interests you, and as long as you follow their guidelines you are free to submit articles after you set up a profile as an author (also free). If you submit articles on an article site, you will want to link people back to your blog if they want to read more about you, or read more of your writing.

Lastly, a lot of the online newspapers (like the Seattle PI) have teen or young adult writers hosting their own blogs. That’s where I found Jessica Lippe who writes the Girlzone section called “It Looks As if…” I would definitely try to connect with her to see if she can give you any additional advice, or some info about how to land a position writing for a newspaper’s blog, as this would be a great “in” for your journalism career.  Happy writing and good luck!

The GPS Gal