Does Crush Feel the Same?


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Does Crush Feel the Same?

GZ Advisor,
I like this guy in my class and i don't know whether he likes me or not. I've caught him staring at me a few times. He rarely talks to me. He has smiled to me a few times. Just a few days ago he talked to me about sports cuz i play basketball. There is this other girl in my class who also likes him but i am not sure whether he likes her or not. Pls help!  Jess

Hi Jess, 

Many girls feel your pain Jess. It's hard to know if a guy is interested in just being friends or is crushing on you, too. It's especially hard if you are both too shy to make a move. If you're ever going to get your answer, you have to work up the courage to talk to him. Try not to pay attention to your pounding heart and warm cheeks..that will go away the more you talk to him and as you begin to feel more comfortable. You both have an interest in sports, so that is a perfect ice breaker that will lead to other convos. Once you form a friendship, it will be much easier to figure out if he has romantic feelings for you. Keep me posted!

GZ Advisor