Crush On BFF's Brother

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Crush On BFF's Brother

Dear GZ Advisor,

Well I like my best friends brother who is my brothers best friend. He looks at me sometimes but sometimes its like I don't exist... I try to see him a recess and get him to notice me but I can't! I'm 12 haha and he's 13... I really like him some people say he's really nice and funny but I havent got the chance to know him! He would only talk to his friends or his sister! And my brother,who is his best friend, hates me because im nice to a girl his whole grade hates for being a 'tramp' and maybe my brother will ruin things but my brother talks about the boy I like to me... So idk!!! At times I see the boy i like looking at me but I don't know if he likes me! He does date older (8th graders) but I have this feeling he might like me. I always tend to think the guy I like likes me but these signs can't really be ignored by me... Ive liked him for 3 months ! So what I'm asking is how do I get his attention? And how do I know if he likes me if I barely see him only trading classes lunch and recess!!!
Sincerelly,
Desperate !!!  Smurflover

 

Hello!

You seem pretty worked up about this whole situation. So, first I'm going to advise you to take a deep breath. :) I know we can feel very emotional when we have a crush, but remember he's JUST A BOY. So, try talking to him like you would to a random guy from your class that doesn't give you butterflies. Be yourself and start a convo about school, sports, video games..anything. Try to get to know him better and you'll figure out if he likes you as more than a friend. Your best friend might be able to give you some insight, too.

ps Make sure to check with your BFF that she's okay with it, too! :)

GZ Advisor